One category of S(A)X’s products I get a great deal of enjoyment from are the various leather harnesses for strap on play. In fact I enjoy strapon sex so much I even present workshops on the subject, LOL!
According to Wiki (which has a great entry on strap-on sex) a strap-on is:
“a dildo designed to be worn (usually in a harness) by one partner and used to penetrate another partner vaginally, anally or orally, used by both heterosexual and homosexual couples.
“For a woman, a strap-on can be used to anally penetrate a man (pegging), for vaginal or anal lesbian intercourse, or for artificial fellatio.
“For a man, a strap-on can be worn for penetrative sex, and may be used in cases of erectile dysfunction, for double penetration, or to penetrate multiple partners. A wide variety of harnesses and dildos are available, with different ways of fitting the wearer, attaching the dildos, stimulating the wearer or the receiver, and all with different features, advantages, and drawbacks for both users”.
You’ll find an in depth article covering everything you wanted to know about strapon sex on my BDSM for Beginner’s blog here.
I use two of S(A)X’s leather harnesses regularly. The first is the Diva, a soft black leather ring harness that is supplied with three rings (40, 45 & 50mm). It can fit both dildos with balls and without - when using dildos with balls the bottom snap is not used. When I wore it the very first time I was concerned about checking this point, wanting to make sure the dildo stayed secure during play if one snap was left open. I need not have worried. The harness works perfectly, and we have had a lot of fun using it. You can read my blog review of the Diva here.
The second harness I use is the Deluxe Vac-u-lok, which you can see illlustrated above. Vac-u-lock is very popular harness system originally devised by Doc Johnson. I’m not surprised it’s popular, because it’s well designed and the use of vacuum provides a very secure connection between dildo and harness. Vac-u-lock dildos have a hole in the base that fits onto a matching plug on the harness or beach ball (yes you can buy one fitted to a beachball!) . And believe me, that dildo really won’t move. It rarely flops downwards or slips, like some ring harnesses. And it’s easy to change dildo during play.
S(A)X’s Deluxe Vac-u-lok harness is a very attractive beast - I had it in mind when I wrote in the BDSM For Beginners Strap-On Sex post that “there is nothing more sexy than a black leather strap-on harness”. Especially when you add a bright pink jelly dildo:
You can read my blog review of this product here, but here’s a little of what I wrote:
“Being a three strap style of harness (one strap around the wearer’s waist, and two leg straps, one around each thigh, rejoining the first strap near the front) the Deluxe is nice and sturdy, and also leaves the genital area accessible. Being leather, it’s comfortable and durable. The straps are very soft. The front panel (with it’s orange Vac-u-plug in the center) is much firmer leather, and is decorated with shiny nickel plated steel studs, a decorative design component distinctive to many S(A)X products … In the case of the leather front panel, the snaps hold both the plastic orange Vac-u-plug attachment piece in place, and a black suede patch that covers the back of the plug. Everything can be taken a part for cleaning…
To sum up, I found “the Vac-u-lock system worked a treat, allowing me exquisitely slow entry into my husband. I was literally moving into him a fraction at a time, then withdrawing, but never quite coming out. This type of precise movement would have been impossible without the Vac-u-lock’s control, which also left my hands free to masturbate him, in movements that complemented those of the dildo”.
I recommend both these harnesses during my strapon sex workshops. They both compliment each other. Having both these styles of harness in my toy box allows me access to a wide range of dildo styles and grants me the ability to use them with confidence. That makes both products definitely worth acquiring!